If a woman does not keep pace with her companions,
perhaps it is because she hears a different drummer.
Let her step to the music which she hears, however measured or far away.

Thoreau (with a Conner twist)

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Sunday, May 20, 2012

PS There Is No Map



A few of us in The Well have been pondering "mapping" the journey from head to heart.  I started playing with the images in the second photo a couple of weeks ago, and it's just kind of morphed.  It took me a while to realize I wanted to do a black and white head, since that's "where I came from".  I've really had so much fun working on these, the this morning, would you believe about 3:30, I woke up wanting to finish it, and write this poem:

PS There Are No Maps

Black or white,
true or false?
Just the facts m'am,
that's all you need.

From head to heart?
What does that matter?
Neat little boxes
hold all your answers.

Ask me no questions
I'll tell you all lies.
Don't open the door;
you'll let the light in.

Eve ate the apple.
The rabbit hole swallowed Alice.
The cyclone swept Dorothy away.
What a trip!

What matters is that you're turned
upside down,
and walk on your hands
with your feet in the air.

Whether you're cast from Paradise
or wind up in Oz,
just go.
The adventure begins.


Saturday, May 5, 2012


WHY I BELIEVE IN THE WORK OF 
THE WELL


I made this little piece last month—it was an art journal prompt (All Torn Up) for our 3rd Act group, and there’s a fun little story behind it, but it’s also the story of the Soul and how she’s formed and cared for.

In my reading this morning, Marion Woodman writes a whole chapter on how we have lived most of our lives disconnected from our bodies.  I know that to be true—I was diagnosed several years ago with fybromalgia, and I currently live with its every day.  I know it’s telling me that the pain locked in my body is emotional pain, old “stuff” that hasn’t been healed yet.  Woodman discusses how important it is, especially for women, to get back into our bodies, to learn to listen to them, and to help them heal from the inside out. 

Woodman writes: :In other words, life has not been lived in the body; the soul has not taken up residence. The body has become a machine, running on willpower, and the soul, the young feminine, has been left to stave in the darkness…We can choose to rescue the little girl from the manure pile. We can give our soul child time to play; time to imagine, dream, perceive; time to put those images into painting, writing, music, dance [journaling, SoulCollage®, active imagination writing and painting].  This is the food that will nourish her.  In our creating, we are created.”

THIS is the purpose of The Well.  We don’t meet there to come out with beautiful art work to hang on a wall; we meet there for self discovery, to aid our souls on the journey, and to help nourish our little child inside along the way.

It IS important work.  I have to remind myself of that because of the times that I sit in The Well by myself.  I have to remember it’s not MY Well, it’s The Well that Christ invites us to.  It can be a place where each one of us is nourished by our own Living Water.

It’s a new ministry.  It flounders.  I’m not sure how to proceed.  You’re not sure it’s worth your time.  None of us are sure what we’re doing.  All I know is that space is opened.  And it’s waiting for you to come and drink.  And if you come, I can at least promise that we’ll keep seeking and knocking until we find the water.  It may take us a while, but we’ll find it.

And if you still don’t come, promise yourself that you’ll find a way to nourish your soul in your own space: write, pray, draw, read, cut out paper dolls, play, and set your little child free to just be, with no Great Expectations.